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From Canada | 21

Intro (after almost a year?)

Heya ~


So after 358 days of being here, I realized that I never made a single intro to myself and my ons and offs so here goes!


The basics!

I'm a 23-year-old black genderqueer person that loves to just lurk on here from time to time. 99.9% leaning sub, 0.01% dom (so like less than a day a year lol). Love any and all bodies and genders as long as they're dom(me)s.


The turn-ons
(putting mainly my fave ones)

  • control
    • free use
    • diet control (forced feeding, force starving)
    • orgasm control (inc. edging, forced orgasms, orgasm denial)
    • mind 'control' and mind reprogramming
  • basic pain stuff
    • branding
    • breath play / asphyxiation
      • choking
      • garotte
      • gagging / face fucking
    • caning, flogging, paddling and many other impact play
    • e-stim
    • knife play (to some extent)
    • needle play (to some extent)
    • sadomasochism (me on the maso side)
    • anything that can bring me to tears, really
  • cnc (i mean duh, it's in my tag)
    • somnophilia
    • drugged/drunk
    • basic cnc (please don't kill me mr. ghostface, i wanna be in the sequel)
    • abduction seduction
    • intoxication
  • misc.
    • dp
    • exhibitionism & voyeurism
    • anal
    • breeding
    • chastity


The soft offs

  • needle play
  • watersports


The hard offs

  • people who actually think rape is okay
  • bigots
  • scat
  • probably more but nothing I can think of as of now.
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